Explain that they should be quiet, sit still, and not disturb others around them. If it is a serious play, tell them to listen carefully and not laugh at the sad parts or other inappropriate times.
Say they need to keep any negative comments to themselves, until they get in the car or home. Performers have worked hard to prepare the event, and it will hurt their feelings.
If your child (or one you are chaperoning) disturbs the audience, take them to the lobby. You may be able to watch the performance on a television screen or listen to it on speakers in the lobby. A few theatres have 'crying rooms' available.
Don’t forget to bring plenty of chaperones for groups of children. Children should never be left unattended. Theatre staff have many responsibilities and should never be expected to keep an eye on children. But if a child does become separated from you or your group, promptly ask a staff member for help finding the lost child.
Some theatres prefer children under 4 or 6 years of age to not attend, unless it is a youth symphony or other children’s performance. Most theatres require children to have their own seat and ticket. If a child is young and small enough to stay in your lap though the entire show, ask about the availability of a lap seat discount.
The content of some shows may not be appropriate for your child. When you buy your tickets, ask about any guidelines for child attendance. Also see if you can find a synopsis or other item that will help you inform a child about the story, music, or other performance they will attend.
Children can be scared just by being in a theatre, so the more preparation you give them the less likely they will have a bad experience.
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